This time it gets more interesting . . .
So you want to get the girl of your dreams but big problem she's already taken. But wait follow these steps and you will charm any girl.
1. Always look nice. Girls love cologne on guys. Even aftershave smells good for girls, but if you do use aftershave make sure you actually shave your beard/mustache. Have a certain style but don't be like a girl and have the latest fashions right when they come out because that would make you appear self obsessed or that you're in love with yourself. And how can you love someone when you're in love with your self! Also, do normal hygiene care (brush teeth, clean out ears, take a shower, put on clean clothes, etc).
2. If you don't already know this girl, get to know her. Go up to her and introduce yourself. Confidence is very sexy. Show her you're not afraid of going after what you want. Also girls love funny guys. Don't be a nerd but a cool funny. Never laugh at someone else's expense, as girls want a sensitive guy, but remember not to be a wimp or appear gay.
3. Right now at this stage don't tell anyone you like her because unless you're like in 5th grade the guy will confront you if he finds out, in high school that is very easily done. Just be her friend. She will see how sweet you are . Also, she will see what a good friend you are. Once that has happened tell her how you feel, but only after you're sure there are some feelings other than "friendship".
4. TALK TO HER. If they are going through some tough times in their relationship make sure you're there for her and if they break up you'll be the one she turns to. This is when you should ask her if you would like to hang out, just as friends though.
5. When they break up do not ask her out right away, this could be a big mistake because she may not be over "him".
6. When she finally gets over him approach her and ask her out. Make sure nobody is around because her friends will convince her to say yes or no.
* Never smell bad, as that is a major turnoff for girls.
* A good shower gel; try to use something like Axe. A lot of girls like it.
* Be confident, not cocky. Girls cannot stand boys who are into themselves and think they are so hot.
* As much as it could hurt this girl might not like you. Don't let this ruin the friendship you have built. If not right now maybe later you guys will get together.
* Try not to laugh at too many others' jokes while she is around. This could make her attention shift to someone else.
* IMPORTANT: Never ever let her boyfriend know of your feeling or intentions. If he does, it's all over.
* Never say bad things about her to other people if it didn't work out because girls have big mouths and it will get around that your a jerk and that will limit your chances with anyone.
* Never stalk her, that would be freaky and weird.
* Try Axe spray, Abercrombie colonge or other manly smells. The commercials are funny but true. A lot of girls love it but some don't. Try a couple different kinds and see the best that suits you. Go to the mall and the department store's to try some of the cologne. A bonus of this is that you could meet girls at the mall, in which case you should just remember to be confident.
Subject: How to Get the Girl You Want if She Already Has a Boyfriend 
Thu Apr 10, 2008 6:01 pm
